Love Languages Questionnaire Love Languages Questionnaire 1. Words of Affirmation I feel loved when someone tells me how much I mean to them. Hearing words of encouragement makes me feel supported. Receiving compliments, even about small things, brightens my day. I enjoy it when people verbally acknowledge my efforts. Hearing the words 'I love you' makes me feel appreciated. 2. Acts of Service I feel cared for when someone helps me with a task that feels overwhelming. Doing something practical, like cooking or cleaning for me, shows love. When others take the initiative to solve a problem for me, I feel valued. I appreciate it when someone goes out of their way to assist me. Small acts of kindness mean more to me than grand gestures. 3. Receiving Gifts I feel special when I receive a thoughtful gift. A small token of love, like a surprise present, makes me happy. I appreciate it when someone remembers me with a gift on special occasions. Receiving something tangible as a symbol of love means a lot to me. It’s not the value of the gift, but the thought behind it that counts. 4. Quality Time I feel most loved when I spend uninterrupted time with someone I care about. Having deep, meaningful conversations is important to me. I enjoy it when someone plans activities we can do together. Shared experiences, no matter how simple, make me feel close to others. I feel valued when someone gives me their undivided attention. 5. Physical Touch I feel most connected when someone gives me a hug. Holding hands or sitting close to someone I love makes me feel secure. I enjoy physical expressions of affection, like a pat on the back or a kiss. Physical touch is one of the most meaningful ways to express love to me. I appreciate the comfort of being physically near someone I care about. 6. Intellectual Connection I feel loved when we engage in stimulating conversations. Discussing ideas and sharing thoughts brings us closer. I value someone who can challenge me intellectually in a supportive way. Having meaningful discussions makes me feel connected. Collaborating on ideas or learning together strengthens our bond. 7. Emotional Support I feel loved when someone listens to me without judgment. Being comforted during tough times makes me feel secure. I value people who validate my emotions and show empathy. Receiving reassurance when I’m upset makes me feel cared for. Knowing someone is emotionally available for me is important. 8. Shared Goals and Achievements I feel connected when we work together on shared goals. Achieving something as a team makes me feel close to others. I appreciate when someone supports me in reaching my personal goals. Collaborating on projects or dreams strengthens our relationship. Celebrating our achievements together makes me feel valued. 9. Space and Independence I feel loved when someone respects my need for personal space. Allowing me to pursue my own interests shows love. I value relationships where my individuality is appreciated. Giving me alone time when I need it makes me feel supported. Respecting my independence strengthens our connection. 10. Digital Connection I feel loved when I receive thoughtful texts or messages. Sharing photos or memories online makes me feel connected. A quick phone or video call makes me feel appreciated. Thoughtful comments or engagement on social media mean a lot to me. Regular digital check-ins make me feel cared for. Submit
